Most of the stories you find here, come from my own experiences. The stories may be embellished, as it appears that reality is not as exciting as fantasy.
The facts are that in our culture (USA), sex is not discussed as much as it should be. This causes people to be frightened by anything new and therefore, they are afraid of exploring what sex can be like. These stories were written in an effort to inform the readers that there is a lot more to a sex, other than intercourse.
Men, in particular, have very limited view of their capabilities. For instance, men can have multiple orgasms, once they have been educated on how. The problem is that few men invest the time or effort required to get this education.
Good sex can last for hours, not just minutes.